HE ALMOST RUINED MY LIFE

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I would have been married by now.

I have pictured myself as the most beautiful bride in her dream wedding gown.

My husband to be, he had every quality of husband material. Let just say 1000 yards 😍

We were set to walk down the aisle. Both parents were so happy to call each other in law.

Surprisingly, none of that came to pass. And it was all my fault.

Hey dear, I beg you to read to the end before throwing stones at me.

I dumped him because I needed my life back. Yes, he took my life. All I did was just breath.

He stopped me from executing every project plan I shared with him.

When I shared with him my plans of launching my podcast, what did he do, he pushed the words back into my mouth without a chance to conclude.

He handed me over a million reasons why I should hide my voice from the world. He then added that I had nothing to offer at the moment and I should wait until I become perfect!

That was when I realized I was too good to be with him. And that very minute, I DUMPED PERFECTION!

The idea of waiting until we become perfect at what we intend to do before we start has made so many persons abandoned their dream projects.

Hey dear, you will never be perfect at anything as long as the clock keeps ticking. So quit waiting and start with the flaws.

There is no perfect time for anything. Just pick your time and make it perfect.

Click the link to listen to any of my podcast in your free time👇👇
https://anchor.fm/ogbusimba-chidinma

It might not be the best right now, but I had to dump perfection to start with my flaws.

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