Ogbusimba Chidinma

 You can back from work very tired. You had zero strength to cook. You remembered you had a few sliced pieces of bread in your fridge.  You rushed into the kitchen and made yourself a cup of tea. Just to relax your mind, you decided to watch a movie on your laptop.  Your colleagues have told you so much about the second part of the movie "King of boys". This was a perfect time to quench your curiosity. You dozed off even before the first episode ended.  You woke up the next morning very tired but you managed to tidy the house to receive your colleagues.  You normally hang out during the weekends to relax and see movies together. A few hours later, there was a knock on your door. It was Fami and Linda. Followed by Mark, Grace, and Peter. You were all excited to see each other.  It's time to eat guys, you called out.  It is also time to see a movie Grace said almost immediately.  Everyone was ready. You turned on the TV and went back to your seat on...

You will always be told that, if you want to be able to do great things in life you need to step out of your comfort zone right? That is because our comfort zone is a place where dreams die, where hopes are crushed, where aspirations decay. Some time ago, someone asked; "if I step out of my house, those it means I have stepped out of my comfort zone"? Can you answer the above question? I am sure you can but here is my opinion. You see, stepping out of your comfort zone here means doing things you don't feel comfortable doing. Things you wouldn't normally do. That is to say, if you keep leaving your home and doing everything you are 100% okay with doing then you haven't left your comfort zone yet. When it comes to stepping out of your comfort zone, you are simply sacrificing short time pain for long time pleasure. The fastest way to get out of your comfort zone is to do things that scare you daily. Face that fear! If you got value from this wr...

Sometimes, things don't always go the way we planned. Sometimes we get disappointed by those we hold in high esteem. Some go ahead to say "it was because you expected too much from them". Well for me, I live every day in expectation. I don't hope for anything, I expect it. But It depends on what and who you are expecting whatever it is from. Many always tie their expectation to what they want others to do for them and 95% are not even realistic. How on earth are you expecting him to buy you a car when he only earns 25k monthly?   The expectation I am talking about here is self expectancy. You must expect great things for yourself before you do them because our expectations for ourselves affect our future performance.  Use the power of positive Self-Expectance to push yourself to the next level this month. Today we mark the beginning of the second quarter of the year 2019. This is to tell you that the year is gradually coming to an end.  F...