Ogbusimba Chidinma

 You can back from work very tired. You had zero strength to cook. You remembered you had a few sliced pieces of bread in your fridge.  You rushed into the kitchen and made yourself a cup of tea. Just to relax your mind, you decided to watch a movie on your laptop.  Your colleagues have told you so much about the second part of the movie "King of boys". This was a perfect time to quench your curiosity. You dozed off even before the first episode ended.  You woke up the next morning very tired but you managed to tidy the house to receive your colleagues.  You normally hang out during the weekends to relax and see movies together. A few hours later, there was a knock on your door. It was Fami and Linda. Followed by Mark, Grace, and Peter. You were all excited to see each other.  It's time to eat guys, you called out.  It is also time to see a movie Grace said almost immediately.  Everyone was ready. You turned on the TV and went back to your seat on...

You will always be told that, if you want to be able to do great things in life you need to step out of your comfort zone right? That is because our comfort zone is a place where dreams die, where hopes are crushed, where aspirations decay. Some time ago, someone asked; "if I step out of my house, those it means I have stepped out of my comfort zone"? Can you answer the above question? I am sure you can but here is my opinion. You see, stepping out of your comfort zone here means doing things you don't feel comfortable doing. Things you wouldn't normally do. That is to say, if you keep leaving your home and doing everything you are 100% okay with doing then you haven't left your comfort zone yet. When it comes to stepping out of your comfort zone, you are simply sacrificing short time pain for long time pleasure. The fastest way to get out of your comfort zone is to do things that scare you daily. Face that fear! If you got value from this wr...

I believe the cemetery will turn my life around....... I still remember the first time like it just happened yesterday. What i usually watch in movies was happing right before me and I couldn't explain it. It wasn't Mercy Johnson or Yul Edochie. It was someone so dear to me. He was beautifully dressed in one of his best suits. I admire him a lot. He was in a deep sleep, yet didn't seem bothered with the noises coming from all angles. He was so comfortable. That was my dad lying in his coffin. It was my first time seeing a corpse. I never knew what it means to be dead. An elderly woman moved close to me and said: "you are never going to see him again". That was strange and very hard to believe. I couldn't control the tears. I always see Mercy Johnson in different movies even after lying in a coffin, so why would my dad's own be different, I asked myself. He told us he was only going to be away for some time and return back home. He had some ong...

People might say all kinds of annoying things to you but if you don't want those words to get into you, there are many ways you can discard them. There is only one person You have to be mindful of, that person has ultimate power over you. And that person is you. Chidinma you can't do this, I mean this too much for you to comprehend, why don't you try next time  or better still forget it.  50% of us today are guilty of saying such words to ourselves. Some end up saying NO to opportunities even before giving it a thought. I once had a friend who always tell herself that she is not good enough for anything that comes her way.  What do you think will happen to such persons in few years to come? I bet you if someone else  had told her the same thing she told herself, she will surely pick offence.  As long as you are still breathing, there is no end to your capacity to grow and develop. Success is a progress, there is no finish line,  only mi...

  Below are 10 things successful people don't do 1. Successful people never return to what didn't work. 2. Successful people never do anything that will require them to be who they're not. 3. Successful people never try to change another person when they're not willing to change. 4. Successful people never believe they can please everyone. 5. Successful people never choose short term comfort over long term benefits.  6.Successful people never trust someone or something that appears flawless. 7.Successful people never take their eyes off the big picture. 8. Successful people never neglect diligence.  9.Successful people never fail to ask why they are where they find themselves. 10.Successful people never forget that their inner life determines their outer success.  Successful people never give up. www.voiceinspires.com

The beautiful tree dancing to the tune of the wind not minding it direction. The sun readily positioned to discharge it's duty.  Lamenting and spiting out words, you could feel the frustration from within, roaring like a hungry tiger ready to devour any prey it eyes catches, his anger will weigh more than 500kg if placed on a weighing balance.  Life curtain gradually pulling it self close like the curtain projecting the completion of a play or dreamer. He gave up on life, life gave up on him, they both gave up on each other but commiting suicide wasn't among his options.  Sitting at the veranda of his house watching and hoping for a miracle to pass his way, the whole drama that happened before his very own eyes that led to the condition he found himself presently kept playing it self in his subconscious mind like a movie on replay.  A huge sum of money was snatched from him just as he was about to enter the bank. Life became meaningless to him that minut...

I DIED LONG AGO    I wasn't living my life, I wasn't living someone else's life, I only knew something wasn't just right.   I had a lot of things on my mind to say to a lot of people but i had no idea who they would be or how to say it. I became smaller as a new morning comes, so i saw myself.   I wanted to sprout but how could i when the cloud is so close to me which means that how far i can go, so i thought.   If i speak who will listen? If i write who will read? I died when no one could hear my voice because i couldn't speak, but I want dump. I cried in the rain so no one would notice my tears.   I allowed the none existing negative thoughts of people control my sense of reasoning.  Now, I finally found my purpose, am living my purpose, am alive again.   Living without purpose is as good as dead. Don't be like me, worry no more about what others may think or say if you exhibit that idea i...

. The more I fail the wiser I become. Failing doesn't mean you cant do it, it simply means you need to learn more to be able to do it.  Dear entrepreneur, failing is inevitable. You just need to learn how to accept it with an open hand and learn from it.  Can you count how many times a baby fall while trying to walk? Even if you start counting at first, you will eventually get tired along the line but the child is now a big boy even ruining and jumping.  If you had stopped him when he fell the first time he won't be walking by now.  Success comes when you stop counting how many times you fail and improve on better ways to hit your set goals.  #Iamchidinma #Everylifemustbetouched

    I saw a very long board on the street. I was amazed at the size of the board. It was so colourful and contained pictures of young, vibrant, beautiful, energetic ladies and gentlemen. I was just few steps away and wasn't in a hurry, so I decided to spear some minutes and take a look.  I was shocked at what I saw when I got there. Do you know they were all obituary posters of people who where between the age of 22 -25. My God, what is this? i asked myself and  Immediately, I heard a voice say to me, 'WHAT HAVE YOU DONE'?        I want to ask you,  yes you the one holding and reading this massage now. Please be sincere to yourself with your answer, What will you do if you just find out that you only have 2 more days to live?       Someone will say God forbid. But do you know that death is inevitable? We have to be prepared. I know my comment box will be filled with thousands of uncompleted dreams ...

        Growing up, i was made to believe from a popular quote that some people where born great, some achieve greatness while others has greatness entrusted in them.      Well, I don't believe in that anymore. I can't say same thing for you. But today, I tell you, everyone one of you was born great. You are not an accident. Not even one person is a mistake because God never make mistakes.     You are here for a reason, you are on a mission. It beyond just being born, going  to school, getting a certificate, getting a job, getting married, giving birth and die.       No, no, no, no, it far more than that. The world is waiting for you. You have this great idea, but you are ashame to let it out. You are scared people will laugh at you right? you sacred of failing?      I tell you, if you don't do it now, others will do it. Don't think it a personal idea so you do it when you wan...

   Being born with a silver spoon is amazing. You get to live large and have all you need at your finger tips. Along the line, you got so obsessed with the feeling of "am the hire to all my parent wealth so why should I work or invest" ?  Bravo!! It all happened as you wished. Off course your husband is well to do and provides for the family.  My question is how long do you want to keep receiving from others? When are you going to start giving? No matter how much you give out, if you did not labour for it then you are just giving in the name of the owner of the property.  By the way, have you noticed that it easier for people to give out something that is not there's compared to what they laboured for? Helping others is a way of saying thank you to God.  You do not need to wait for them to ask before you give for some may never ask. Majority don't need your money, they only need someone to love and care for them. Countless of people die o...

       There is no way you can become great by acting like every other person you see around yo, so i will be taking you through the 10 steps that will help become a great person. 1.  Know yourself; the best way for you to out grow who have already become for you to become better is by admitting your fault. Admit the good, the bad and the ugly and stay true to yourself. You cant stop smoking if you keep lying to yourself that you are not yet addicted to smoking. Accept who you have become and work towards changing to become better. 2. Make out something; create something that can help other people reach their own goals. No one can put a price tag when it comes to helping people for it priceless. When you help them with what you already know, that singular act of yours will duplicate you. You get to see yourself in them and for every normal being, that fulfillment. 3. Learn to serve; great people are those who dedicate their time into serving ...

WHO'S PICTURE SURROUNDS YOU?             Wait a minute, I want you to stop and take a look around you and write in the comment box who's pictures surround your current environment. Find mine in the comment box.             The pictures you surrounds yourself with has the power to define who you are and who you will be in few years to come. Yes it that serious. I walked into your room and saw pictures of great footballers boldly displayed on your wall, then I need no prophet to tell me you love football and with much love, you would equally want to be like one of those icons later in the future.           I watched a movie and this girl has passion to be the fasted runner in an up coming running competition. She wrote on her wall beside a great runners picture "I was born to run" and that motivated till the end when her dream became a reality.        For...

   ONCE UPON A TIME The weather was friendly this evening so i decided to spend some litle time outside before retireing to bed. After some time, i noticed a dog standing just few kilometers away from me.    What exactly is he looking at i asked myself, i thought about it for a while yet couldnt get any clue from my already exsusted brain after the days  job.     Finally, i conclueded withing me that the only option left is for me if I really want to know what  his looking at that  is hindering his movement. Some how, I managed to lift my tired body from the chair i was sitting only to find out that he has been stearing at a whole he ought to cross if at all he wants to go home as the street was not his home.   One thing i observed, was the fact that he never made any attempt to jump that hole, not even once.   That is exactly what is happing to so many of us today. We perish and end up withing the walls o...

                                                                                     THE GOLD IN YOU I never knew you had a gold chain. No, no, don't roll your eyes at me like that. Am not in anyway lieing to you. I saw it inside your bag. It look so amazing, but why are you not making use of it? You know you could wear it to the wedding coming up on Saturday? I was confounded with her response "I don't have any gold chain" she said to me. It so unfortunate that so many deny things that belong to them without their consent just because it not beautiful enough. Noting in life comes easy. Refining gold isn't a day job. You have to put in a lot of time and energy to get the best you desire. The same thing goes for your talents, skills and so on. What eve...

You have to be willing to walk alone when others get tired of walking with you. It your dream and vision so it alright if they find it difficult to comprehend. You may at some point feel rejected, dejected, abandoned. I want you to know that just another phase of life. Don't give up on that beautiful dream. It might just be what the world need now. Success comes to only those who didn't give up on themselves. When you give up, then it over. #Iamchidinma #Ibeliveinyou #Legacymotivation

You are still poor not because you don't have money. There  is defiantly something you not getting right. For you to be successful, it is essential that you organize your life around yourself, rather than to organize yourself around the demands of your external world. There are millions of great ideas inside of you, but the question is have you taken out your time to figure them out? All these voice down to time management. Believe it or not, majority are suffering from time poverty and not money poverty. They are two different things. You hang around with friends who all they engage themselves in all day is gossip and at the end of the day you return home empty.  You complain notting good is coming your way. How will they come your way when you keep going else where? There is no way the brain can function positively when you keep feeding it with toxic substances. Most people are time wasters. They waste their time, and waste your own time as well. H...