Ogbusimba Chidinma

I believe the cemetery will turn my life around....... I still remember the first time like it just happened yesterday. What i usually watch in movies was happing right before me and I couldn't explain it. It wasn't Mercy Johnson or Yul Edochie. It was someone so dear to me. He was beautifully dressed in one of his best suits. I admire him a lot. He was in a deep sleep, yet didn't seem bothered with the noises coming from all angles. He was so comfortable. That was my dad lying in his coffin. It was my first time seeing a corpse. I never knew what it means to be dead. An elderly woman moved close to me and said: "you are never going to see him again". That was strange and very hard to believe. I couldn't control the tears. I always see Mercy Johnson in different movies even after lying in a coffin, so why would my dad's own be different, I asked myself. He told us he was only going to be away for some time and return back home. He had some ong...

Life is not a bed of roses. Most people only choose to view life with rose colored glasses. Trying to sugarcoat the truth. Such people end up living in their own world of lies. Some time ago, I dedicated my time to goal setting. Goals that never saw the daylight. I was depressed, confused like anyone in my shoes would be.  It took me a while to realize my mistake. I was waiting for something that isn't going to happen. I was waiting for the perfect time, perfect experience, perfect confidence. The greatest way to waste your time is waiting for the perfect time. Aren't you aware that there is no such thing as the perfect time?.  However, you step, just step. Sometimes you have to step out of something to step into something. Sometimes you have to give up something to acquire something. Life is hard, you've got to choose your hard. Do nothing and remain where you are, or do something and fail. Failure birth experience. Increases your confidence. Wid...

Dear Entrepreneur, I may not be strong enough to travel with you through out the journey, but I won't let you go all alone. I will be deceiving you if I tell you it going to be a smooth journey. Let the tears down when the time come, they will clean up the windows of your heart. Do not try to defend yourself when Mr  failure walk in. Take responsibility for all your actions. In most cases, it takes longer than we assumed to succeed when we set out. Withing the period you are waiting for Mr success to step in, enjoy the process, learn the lessons and record them for others waiting to begin their journey someday. You will surely get to the top if you remain focused and consistent. If you fail, keep trying  until you succeed. Don't give up yet. #Everylifemustbetouched

People might say all kinds of annoying things to you but if you don't want those words to get into you, there are many ways you can discard them. There is only one person You have to be mindful of, that person has ultimate power over you. And that person is you. Chidinma you can't do this, I mean this too much for you to comprehend, why don't you try next time  or better still forget it.  50% of us today are guilty of saying such words to ourselves. Some end up saying NO to opportunities even before giving it a thought. I once had a friend who always tell herself that she is not good enough for anything that comes her way.  What do you think will happen to such persons in few years to come? I bet you if someone else  had told her the same thing she told herself, she will surely pick offence.  As long as you are still breathing, there is no end to your capacity to grow and develop. Success is a progress, there is no finish line,  only mi...

GOD FORBID, I WILL NEVER STRUGGLE  I have lost count of how many folks made such statement before me within the past few days. We always want everything to fall into place without lifting a finger. I want you to know that you will not only find roses on your way to success. Most times, you get to find more thorns than roses. So what do you when you find thorns? You either go back or step on it and get treated later. Going back means putting your success on hold. Steping on it keeps you moving. What doesn't kill you make you stronger.  You waiting for capital from the government to start a business. What will become of you if it never come true? Haven't you heard of people who started with zero capital? If you haven't, what stopping you from making research now?  It time to step out of  your comfort zone and stop relaying on promises that will never be fulfilled. If you find a part with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere.  #Ever...

  Below are 10 things successful people don't do 1. Successful people never return to what didn't work. 2. Successful people never do anything that will require them to be who they're not. 3. Successful people never try to change another person when they're not willing to change. 4. Successful people never believe they can please everyone. 5. Successful people never choose short term comfort over long term benefits.  6.Successful people never trust someone or something that appears flawless. 7.Successful people never take their eyes off the big picture. 8. Successful people never neglect diligence.  9.Successful people never fail to ask why they are where they find themselves. 10.Successful people never forget that their inner life determines their outer success.  Successful people never give up. www.voiceinspires.com

7 Powerful Quotes On Goals  Your ability to set goals is the master skill of success. It doesn't matter where you are coming from, all that matters is where you are going to.  See more below 1 " Goals are the fuel in the furnace of achievement"---Tom Hopkins  2 "Be sure that as you scramble up the ladder of success, it is leaning against the right building"---Stephen Covey  3 "The only thing that stands between a man and what he wants from life is often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe that it possible"---Richard M. Devos  4 "The roots of most of our problems in life are contained in the feeling, I am not good enough"--- Louise Hay  5 "Within every difficulty or obstacles, there is the seed of an equal or greater advantage or benefit"---Napoleon Hill  6 "Failure is merely an opportunity to more intelligently begin again"--- Henry Ford  7 "To achieve something you have never ...