Ogbusimba Chidinma

 You can back from work very tired. You had zero strength to cook. You remembered you had a few sliced pieces of bread in your fridge.  You rushed into the kitchen and made yourself a cup of tea. Just to relax your mind, you decided to watch a movie on your laptop.  Your colleagues have told you so much about the second part of the movie "King of boys". This was a perfect time to quench your curiosity. You dozed off even before the first episode ended.  You woke up the next morning very tired but you managed to tidy the house to receive your colleagues.  You normally hang out during the weekends to relax and see movies together. A few hours later, there was a knock on your door. It was Fami and Linda. Followed by Mark, Grace, and Peter. You were all excited to see each other.  It's time to eat guys, you called out.  It is also time to see a movie Grace said almost immediately.  Everyone was ready. You turned on the TV and went back to your seat on...

I would have been married by now. I have pictured myself as the most beautiful bride in her dream wedding gown. My husband to be, he had every quality of husband material. Let just say 1000 yards 😍 We were set to walk down the aisle. Both parents were so happy to call each other in law. Surprisingly, none of that came to pass. And it was all my fault. Hey dear, I beg you to read to the end before throwing stones at me. I dumped him because I needed my life back. Yes, he took my life. All I did was just breath. He stopped me from executing every project plan I shared with him. When I shared with him my plans of launching my podcast, what did he do, he pushed the words back into my mouth without a chance to conclude. He handed me over a million reasons why I should hide my voice from the world. He then added that I had nothing to offer at the moment and I should wait until I become perfect! That was when I realized I was too good to be with him. And that very minute, I DUMPED ...

You will always be told that, if you want to be able to do great things in life you need to step out of your comfort zone right? That is because our comfort zone is a place where dreams die, where hopes are crushed, where aspirations decay. Some time ago, someone asked; "if I step out of my house, those it means I have stepped out of my comfort zone"? Can you answer the above question? I am sure you can but here is my opinion. You see, stepping out of your comfort zone here means doing things you don't feel comfortable doing. Things you wouldn't normally do. That is to say, if you keep leaving your home and doing everything you are 100% okay with doing then you haven't left your comfort zone yet. When it comes to stepping out of your comfort zone, you are simply sacrificing short time pain for long time pleasure. The fastest way to get out of your comfort zone is to do things that scare you daily. Face that fear! If you got value from this wr...

Failure isn't final, it opens you up to better ways to succeed. No great man today will say he never failed. That impossible. Even those who thought they had it all figured out still failed somehow. Some poeple fail In business because; 1: They try to ignore the learning process and forcefully pursue result; It doesn't work that way. Success itself is a journey. But most people don't even understand the link between the PROCESS and SUCCESS. Break the link and you will never arrive at your destination. You only keep running in circles. Embrace the process and success will come running towards you. 2: Too focused on profit that they forget the risk involved;  Inasmuch as we all want to make a profit, it shouldn't be the driving force. So what will be your fate if the profit never comes as expected? You will definitely quite and move to another sector with the same mindset. 3: Comparison; Do not compare your weakness with other person strength. There’s no com...

3 WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE STAY WITH YOU When you see a group of photographs that you are in, whose picture do you look for first? I know you are smiling right now. I know what on your mind. Well, to make yourself the kind of person others would always want to hang around; 1: Be a Value Giver. If you don't add value to people, don't expect them to stay around you for a long time. Don't connect with people with the mindset of "what can I gain" instead ask "what can I give". Do not be a parasite. You will be discarded.  Let everyone who comes across you leave a better person. Have you ever heard this statement "if  I engage someone in a two minutes discussion, I will be able to tell the kind of person he/she is? I know you have.  I've heard it countless times too. 2: Be genuinely interested in others. If we merely try to impress people and get them interested in us, we will never have many true, sincere friends. You can make more frie...

Sometimes, things don't always go the way we planned. Sometimes we get disappointed by those we hold in high esteem. Some go ahead to say "it was because you expected too much from them". Well for me, I live every day in expectation. I don't hope for anything, I expect it. But It depends on what and who you are expecting whatever it is from. Many always tie their expectation to what they want others to do for them and 95% are not even realistic. How on earth are you expecting him to buy you a car when he only earns 25k monthly?   The expectation I am talking about here is self expectancy. You must expect great things for yourself before you do them because our expectations for ourselves affect our future performance.  Use the power of positive Self-Expectance to push yourself to the next level this month. Today we mark the beginning of the second quarter of the year 2019. This is to tell you that the year is gradually coming to an end.  F...